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أحمد عوض

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Hi. I need some marriage advice. Our marriage was...

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Hi. I need some marriage advice. Our marriage was arranged. We got to know each other and then decided to get married. 3 months later I fell pregnant everything seem okay. Until I started to sense distance between me and my husband. Then eventually I found out he was cheating on me with a lady who was twice his age and had 3 kids. She was a white lady. When I caught his lies I told him parents. At first my husband tried blaming me saying it was my fault. But then he admitted he was having an affair before even we got married. He use to call her message her romanticly. I have seen all these messages. When she wanted to separate from him because she found out he was married, my husband didn't let her leave and chased her through lengthy romantic emails. This was a year ago. Despite this I took him back he said he will never cheat. I know he won't but I don't feel the same chase or love that I witness in the texts he had sent his mistress. When I argue with him he gets very nasty and puts everything on me as if his done nothing wrong and im the one who should be changing my ways. We argue and he just let's me cry and doesnt even fight or chase for me. Instead just adds to it. I have to remind him his not being consistent with him romantic gestures or even making the effort. I am so confused. I gave him another chance and he says he will do better. But each time we argue he shows me a side which makes me wonder does he even love me.

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أحمد عوض

أحمد عوض

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الأسئلة المجابة 9090 | نسبة الرضا 97.5%

We would like to inform you that according to your speech, he is in a relationship with this woman before your marriage, but it is clear that it is not a true love relationship, but only that you may be just a freak or that he gets used to it, and if it is a true love relationship, he would not marry you, and there may be another reason, for example, that your husband suffers from the emotional deficiency in his life, and this may be due to a lack of emotion in childhood, and he had a psychological complication, and as long as she is now left by him when she knew that he is married, it is an opportunity to restore the relationship between you and if at the present time it is unstable, and what you have to do to be calm and wise and what you have to do is find the right time when he is at his best and tell him the psychological pain that he caused you, and clarify from him the deficiencies that he feels towards you according to his speech and be calm and smart and listen to his feelings and discuss, because the conversation empties negative feelings in a balanced way, and is a way to solve and end any disagreement between the spouses, and then they reached harmony again, and being a renewed and understanding woman for his emotional and marital demands away from the routine, and try to spend as much time as possible with him, and over time this case will fade to return the relationship to her beautiful path of interest, continuous and love.
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الأسئلة المجابة 9090 | نسبة الرضا 97.8%

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