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Alia Ahmed

Alia Ahmed

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الأسئلة المجابة 46692 | نسبة الرضا 98.1%

Marriage & Family Counseling

I am married for a year and half now since day one...

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I am married for a year and half now since day one I was the one who initiating sex. We married after years of love and we are best friends still. However, I don’t feel it’s normal he barely initiates sex but when we have sex it’s good so he has no issues related. Now we’ve a 7 month baby and since he was born we had sex once.

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إجابة الخبير: Alia Ahmed

Alia Ahmed

Alia Ahmed

Psychotherapist

الأسئلة المجابة 46692 | نسبة الرضا 98.1%

As long as your husband does not suffer from any health problem that prevents him from doing sex with you, there is no problem in facing him, as he will not feel embarrassed.
But you must be calm, choose the right time, and ask why this behavior. Is there a problem in accepting the relationship with you because it is not normal for all that time to remain without sex other than that he does not initiate it either?
He must clarify his problem because if there is any problem between you, you shall work together to solve it and not leave you in confusion

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I did face him many times, first time was a week after the marriage in our honeymoon. everytime he gives me the same response that It’s nit true and just a feeling I’ve and right after we finish the conversation he starts initiating sex to prove me I am wrong. Same scenario every time. Lately after delivering my baby I became somehow tight so the couple of time we tried sex I was in pain so I went to my doctor and she gave me some lubricant to use during sex that was couple months ago and we tried only like twice. So if the talk did not come with any result what should I do. The whole thing is kinda insulting, we supposed to be in love and he’s literally perfect I love him and sure he loves me too but I cannot get why he does that.

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I am looking for some answers plz!

إجابة الخبير: Alia Ahmed

Alia Ahmed

Alia Ahmed

Psychotherapist

الأسئلة المجابة 46692 | نسبة الرضا 98.1%

As long as he is organically healthy and loves you already, the last reason is sexual frigidity with him, because he does not feel the excitement or sexual desire and his feelings do not move unless he pushes it for this and this matter has nothing to do with you or his love for you but rather it is considered a medical problem for sure, there are reasons for childhood, for example, and the reasons must be known in order for treatment to take place therefore, a psychiatrist must be visited in order to reach the cause of this frigidity and there are types of treatment that address this condition and can refer to a doctor to prescribe him stimulant therapies for sexual desire, but psychological treatment must be done so that it does not depend on drug therapy and whoever else does not feel the desire at all

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الأسئلة المجابة 46692 | نسبة الرضا 98.1%

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