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Alia Ahmed

Alia Ahmed

Psychotherapist

الأسئلة المجابة 46395 | نسبة الرضا 98.1%

Marriage & Family Counseling

I am a bad mom I love my kids but I can’t show...

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I am a bad mom I love my kids but I can’t show them my love i always shout on them especially my older daughter I feel so bad but I can’t stop myself. Please help
Assistant: Have you sought out therapists or counsellors about this before? ...or tried anything else?
No
Assistant: Anything else you think the psychologist should know before I connect you?
I am acting with the like my mom used to do with me which I hate by the way. Most of the time I feel that no one loves me or care about me. I am so depressed

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Alia Ahmed

Alia Ahmed

Psychotherapist

الأسئلة المجابة 46395 | نسبة الرضا 98.1%

Your anger has a very negative impact in raising children. If your anger does not stop, your children disorders will increase. Try to observe your angry behavior with your children and the extent of your exaggeration and divide them according to their severity and try to write them down. Try in a week, for example, to get rid of things that the severity of anger is the less then get rid of more severe and etc. Most of those things may be related to some bad experiences in your life and stored inside you and it appears now and affect your relationship with your children, but you must realize that the child who is subjected to cruel treatment by the father and mother grows with a weak character and not confident in himself and he may become introvert. Therefore, what you want your children to become, you can raise them on it.

- Always put their interest in front of your eye and know perfectly that your behavior with them will affect their mental health and their future.
- Always remember that your children have nothing to do with your circumstances and problems and do not infect them with your anger and that most of your anger is mainly because of you.
 
Your children are young in the stages of forming their personality and they should be safe in your hands so try to keep them close to you. There is also an exercise that is possible to do when you feel angry, close your eyes and take a deep breath and exhale quietly and this will give you a moment of thinking: is what happened worth anger and screaming on your children and influencing their lives? this will calm you a lot.

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Alia Ahmed

Alia Ahmed

Psychotherapist

الأسئلة المجابة 46395 | نسبة الرضا 98.1%

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