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Alia Ahmed

Alia Ahmed

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my wife abuses me and my family,iam married since 7years and have 2 kids (5Y boy & 3 Yr daughter) ,any demand or gift she wants she bring my mother/family and refere them then start yelling at me some times i do also reply her but recently she started physical abuse and threating me of troubling me,taking away my children,saying bad language to me and my family,cursing me if informed her bechaviour to her mother but she manipulated and told that iam physicall and am abusive the reason why she fought was she wants Gold to buy now as i told her let make it afterwards i was not well she just said ur doing to ur motehr and not to me and started yelling...i gave her my card and ask her to buy herself but she didnot she is so stubborn,abusive,non understanding i dont know how to proceed i encouraged her also to take family counselling but she didnot agree please advice

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Alia Ahmed

Alia Ahmed

Psychotherapist

Answered 29030 | Rating 98.1%

Dear Sir,

 

It seems that your wife has a swing mood and she quickly loses her temper no matter how small and easy the situation is.

First, you have to accept her and keep up with her. She might be in a struggle situation. You have to set with her and calm her. Discuss your issues and what mental situation she is going through. Show her that these issues affect your family and your kids. You have to work with her to stop these problems. The most important is to keep calm and solve these issues without interfere from any side (Your family and her family as well), so things do not get complicated. On the other hand, it is a negative power inside her, as you can let her practice sport permanently. Discus the thing with her and start coping with each other, so your issues do not keep bile up.

Finally yet importantly, you have to keep the kids away from these problems. Keep your voices and issues inside your room. Agree on everything you want to do and try to do the husband part from your side

 

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Kind Regards 

 

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