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Alia Ahmed

Alia Ahmed

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I'm a married women for the past 6 years with two kids. I met someone at work and against all odds we fell Inlove. Our connection is something I can never explain, apart from the chemistry and physical attraction. I got pregnant while we were together and his wife also got pregnant and delivered recently. I don't know what it can be, but despite all the obstacles we have an interesting connection. This has been going for two years now and I'm completely lost right now. My husband is a good man but I feel no connection towards, not physical nor emotional and he says that he feels the same. What can we do!? The agony is outrageous? We need to both sit with someone and explain our situation. We will be in Dubai next Thursday , and we can discuss this further.

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Alia Ahmed

Alia Ahmed

Psychotherapist

Answered 29030 | Rating 98.1%

ear madam,

Welcome, and thank you for trusting us

 

 

Madam, honestly when a person feels loved and taken care of by someone else, he/she tries to hold on to him for long. When it turns to a feeling matter and feeling connection, this is where two persons fall in love. In that case the person tries to justify all his advantages, either with feelings or life itself. At some pint maybe it turns that the two of them share the bed and get intimate with each other. After a while, you will feel regret because you are married to a loyal husband. This is where agony starts and inability to sleep because of such thing.

The question is, do you want to separate from your husband and your children and live with your lover..?. Is the person whom you love really loves you..?

Perhaps, everything between you two is a moment of love and not commitment. Maybe he will not be able to act when you ask him to get marry.

Therefore, sister I advise you to reconsider your status. Be a decisive woman, while you have to take the right decision. Remember, you have children and a husband who at least loyal to you. This thing has a big results. Perhaps, if you get divorce to marry your lover, maybe he does not want a commitment. You have to maintain your relation for your children. Thin straight and well before you take the only and huge decision

 

 

 

We are privileged to communicate with you, and you can always consult many experts on Jawabkom like Doctors, Nutritionists, and Engineers

 

Kind Regards 

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