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Assalam walaikum, I have a HUGE problem communicating with my wife she is currently in high depression because she is not able to kickstart her career but I'm doing my best from everything I could, financially borrowing a big loan to pay for all our household, children education (2kids) and everything. But due to her "complaining" nature, I just get too stressed and this is affecting our sexual life very badly due to which she also doubts at me that I could be having an affair, could you please help how do I go about handling this situation

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Expert's Answer: Dr. Saeed Nabhan

Dr. Saeed Nabhan

Dr. Saeed Nabhan

Certified Psychotherapist

Answered 10120 | Rating 98.9%

السلام عليكم و رحمة الله ,
وشكراَ لانضمامك الينا و ثقتكم بنا.
سيدي العزيز / لقد اتصلنا بك ولم يرد احد ويرجى ان تحدد موعد لاحق للمكالمة ، ما فهمته من رسالتك ان زوجتك قد تعرضت لظرف لنفسي معك وهي انك خنتها قبل ذلك وانها تغشى منك ان تقوم بنفس الامر مره اخرى ، فكل ما هو مطلوب منك ان الان ان تبقى كل الامور التي بها سرية مفتوحه امامها مثل الهواتف والحواسيب وان تبقى معها في اغلب الاوقات التي يسمح لوقت ان تبقى معها ، وان تشعرها بأنك مهتم بها وان ما مضى لن يعود ، كذلك يجب ان لا تنسى ان الضغوط التي تمر بها زوجتك هي بسبب تصرف صدر منك ، كذلك حاول ان تشركها بأمور تحقق بها نفسها مثل جامعة او وظيفة الخ ، كذلك ممارسة التمارين الرياضية او اللعب بجم رياضي مهم جدا للتخفيف عن كل الضغوط التي تمر بها ، وهنا من المهم ان ترسم الفرح لها وان تفاجئها بإمور هيه  تحبها اي اشعرها بالاهتمام الذي تبحث عنه كل النساء 
اتمنى لك السلامة.
يمكنك الإستفسار فى أى وقت و سنقوم بالرد عليك فى أسرع وقت ممكن.
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Expert's Answer: Dr. Saeed Nabhan

Dr. Saeed Nabhan

Dr. Saeed Nabhan

Certified Psychotherapist

Answered 10120 | Rating 98.9%


Dear sir,

Welcome, and thank you for trusting us

 

 

Sir, we called you but you didn't answer, please arrange with us for a call

What i understood from you, that you cheated on your wife and she is little sensitive because she is afraid that you will cheat on her again.

We advise you to be honest with her, and keep her to see your cell phone, emails and the laptop. And you should keep her company, stay with her as long as you can. So you can let her feel that you care about her and let bygones be bygones

Don't forget that she has the right to get upset, because she feels that you do not care and cheated.

Moreover, you have to let her share you a lot of things like and take her to places that alleviate her pressure and feels warm toward you.

For example, try to surprise her with things she likes, and make her love you from a start and based on honesty

 

 

We are privileged to communicate with you, and you can always consult many experts on Jawabkom like Doctors, Nutritionists and Engineers

 

Kind Regards 

 
Good Luck   

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