I have been with my boyfriend for 9 years now. I’m...

I have been with my boyfriend for 9 years now. I’m 23 and he’s 25 and we love each other since we were 13. We want to get married but they are some financial gaps. His family are having some financial issues since 2011 and I can’t accept what he’s offering in terms of the house we will get married in and other stuff. We fought a lot about this and we broke up twice because of it but we always come back together what shall I do